The Big O


Ladies, it’s time to get to know how lucky we are as women! It’s cause for celebration that women have no refractory period like men (30 minutes on average), and we can have multiple orgasms in one single session. Women may experience a brief clitoral sensitivity after orgasm, but that doesn’t mean we have to stop touching other areas of the vulva, vagina or other erogenous zones. And in fact, women can orgasm again right away with continued stimulation. Why stop at one or two orgasms, when studies show seven out of ten women can climax as many as 20 times in a single session. Oh yes! 

Although, orgasms may not be as simple or as common as many people would suggest. That’s ok, do not fret. You’ve never had an orgasm, you say? You can build that muscle, just like going to the gym. Except this gym might be the bedroom, the shower, or the kitchen counter. Here are a few tips to get you purring. 

❤️ Set the mood with a Playlist. You can make a super sexy jazzy playlist like “Let’s Get It On” by Marvin Gaye, or make a “Bangin’ playlist” with “Go To Town” by Doja Cat or “Body Party” by Ciara. Women need an average of 15 minutes to warm up and music helps to set the mood. 

❤️ Light a candle and enjoy some fruit and a delicious glass of wine. Use all your senses to relax into a sexy mood. We love this delicious massage candle by Maude. It’s a perfect way to set the mood. Made with skin-softening jojoba and your skin will feel Oh.. so soft. Also, almost any fruit and wine can be an aphrodisiac so pick your favorite. 

❤️ Toys and Lube are game-changers. There are lots of choices for lubes, but next to the bed is best! Wetter is always better! This silicone-based lube by Uberlube has a long-lasting performance that lets skin feel skin with simple ingredients. This G-spot vibe might make you say OMG IRL! The shaft is wide, and the flat tip targets the G-spot while the flared base teases your vulva and stays in place for hands-free fun! Oh Em Gee’s flexible shaft and 10 vibrating speeds and pulsing patterns help you hit your sweet spot every time!

Masturbation is great for self-discovery and assists with learning what you like and what feels good to you since no two women are alike. That way you will be able to communicate what you enjoy to your partner. Masturbation is essential to your self-care routine. It is proven to have tons of perks for our mental and physical health! Its many benefits are reduced stress, it boosts overall confidence, and will even make you happier! Orgasms release endorphins that lift your mood, boost your satisfaction and activate the reward circuits in your brain. Who knew Orgasms were so good for you? 

XX Lola 

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